USA Statistics on Child Sex Offenders & Church.

Written by Lisa Toinen Mullen.

http://www.nhcconline.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/Sexual-Offenders-Within-The-Christian-Community-BT.pdf

In the US statistically a paedophile is nearly always (a) male (b) white (c) married (d) religious (e) older than 30.

Because of (d) they are typically more conservative too, politically and  socially.

They are always against sex education because the perfect paedophile victim is a sexually ignorant kid, ashamed about their body, scared to talk about sex, doesn't know what is acceptable or unacceptable and taught to be submissive to authority figures.

Misdirection by accusing others is very common, gay men typically and now of course trans women.

You look at all the politicians convicted of child abuse and every single one of them was virulently anti-LGBTI.

McHugh used that 'gay man' misdirection approach in his defence of paedophile Catholic priests.

They are very good at exploitation of power and conservative/religious parents are perfect  for breeding sex abuse victims. 

Exploitation of Power 

∗ Submission to authority. From the earliest age, children are taught to “respect and obey their elders”.

∗ Authoritarian Leadership – Religious leaders often distort their role & authority by claiming to speak for God.

∗ No accountability

∗ Unresponsive to concerns raised regarding abuse.

∗ Adults are valued more than children.

∗ Victims are seen as “sinful” and trouble-makers and are often ostracized. 

∗ These environments are ripe for abuse.

Then there is:

Exploitation of Religious Issues

∗ Issues of faith are often distorted & manipulated to coerce victims in submitting to abuse and to be quiet about it:

∗ Defining “sin” to justify (Ex. This is the expression of God ordained love)

∗ Defining “sin” to silence. (Ex. You should be ashamed of your sin)

∗ Distancing from God (Ex. Because of your sin, God doesn’t care about you, but I do.)

The victim’s own analysis of religious doctrine may result in confusion and silence.

∗ Child Victim: “Am I having sex outside of marriage?”

∗ “God is going to punish me for this secret sin.”

"I want to describe a child molester I know very well. This man was raised by devout Christian parents and as a child he rarely missed church. Even after he became an adult, he was faithful as a church member. He was a straight A student in high school and college. He has been married and has a child of his own. He coached little league baseball and was a choir director at his church. He never used illegal drugs and never had a drink of alcohol. He was

considered the clean cut, all American boy. Everyone seemed to like him and he often volunteered in numerous civic community functions. He had a well-paying career and was considered “well to do” in society. But from the age of 13 years old, this boy sexually molested little boys. He never victimized a stranger..all of his victims were “friends”….I know this child molester very well because he is me!

- Convicted child molester"

So in summary, if you see a white, married, very religious male that is extremely  anti-lgbti then the odds are that they are either a paedophile, a 'gay hating closeted gay male' (and most likely not a paedophile),  less commonly perhaps has various fetishistic types of sexual interests that are not actually bad or illegal but embarrassing and hypocritical, or  straight and not a paedophile but cheating on their partners.

The odds of them actually being as 'straight' and 'upstanding' as they act is low.

You Can't Bring Me Down!

Do you honestly think after all of these years

I've forgotten your promise to replace hatred with cheers

instead forced into shadows because of your fears

The blood on your hands is more telling that tears

The rape, and the comments the ridicule and jeers

More brutal the murders increase higher each year.

Yet you are the victim when you caused the fires

Your inappropriate questions still label us as the liars

Again we're the scapegoat and it's always our fault

Our reputation an accusation of sexual assault

Now my genitals are questioned and the discussions are loud

You'be erased my existence with your moralistic shroud

Now i'm nothing of value until Mardi Gras comes around

Then you're caring and accepting and once a year proud

But every comment and whisper your hand Tightens thr Knott 

On the Rope of statistics that stem from your rot

Now women and children are not safe to be around

But the real sicko is you as we are thrown to the hounds

fuck off and shut up take your judgement and run

For I am not stupid and you will soon come undone

How dare you accuse me of assaulting someone

You used me as fodder when you are the one

That nobody believed about your God and his son

Now you and your church I'm exposing the end has begun

Our Existence Is Not For Debate!

I've read enough!

Our Existence is not for debate!

So fuck your Judgement!

And fuck your Hate!

Don't you dare preach to me or anybody else something you can't even spell dickhead. Over the last few days I've seen the word morality spelled incorrectly more times than you actually attempted to insult me. Also as a mere human being speaking for God is forbidden. You are not God and if this deity even exists they wouldn't be very happy reading over your hate filled poorly written. Idiocy the last week as you attacked as many people as possible from your glass houses hiding behind the morality of Jesus Christ and God.

Never in my life have I read such disgusting, hate filled, petty name calling and death threats form a bunch of clearly disenfranchised aimless cowards who are so lost that you now use your ambiguous words solely for insulting all the while stamping your feet like in petulant directionless children who didn't get a lollipop. It is the fault of yours only for refusing to move forward with an ever evolving world  of individuals who have become aware to your bullshit even though increasingly disenfranchised themselves. You know this to be true even though you continue to blatantly ignore people and their words because that is how you were trained to act. Meaning you can't really be held accountable. Much like the entire organisation based around a get out of jail free card if you apologise to a zombie nailed to a stick. Ask the child molesters in your organisation who have built their predatory sins against your children around it.

You know what they say about karma.

You have spent so much time invading people's spaces shoving your religious agenda down people's throats for decades, knocking on doors on the weekends, End of the world fanatics on street corners and labelling us all immoral when people began to label you crazy for repeatedly hounding them to follow blindly instead of listening. Rejection can be so destructive I and many of my friends can empathise as we learned how destructive it can be from you!

I guess it took its toll and the bitterness began to creep in alongside the systemic corruption and child sex offences poorly hidden within the powers behind the walls that enjoy the tax breaks and a free ticket to perversions and constantly ignoring the growing poverty and oppression before you. 

Now you are all lost and disempowered as the right wing politicians work alongside their lawyers to disrupt by creating diversions that you still are trained to willingly follow because that's all you know. All of you brandishing guns and fucking like rabbits to create your ridiculously large numbers of children to use in hate campaigns yelling "what about the women and children" 

The very same children who are molested by your convicted pastors and government leaders and the very same women who suffer inequality every day from the likes of men such as yourselves hiding behind your false prophet, money, arrogance and guns!

Why do you hate the LGBTQIA community so much? Because we have stood up to tyranny and demanded what is long over due and don't really need much more to move to the next biggest fight. The increasing unemployment, homelessness, poverty and injustice that is so clearly going on behind the extremely thin veil of lies that protect a darkness that makes your pissy concept of Hell more like a ride at Disney World! Once the walls begin to shake the shift in balance to equality will be complete.

We don't care what you think about who we fuck or who we identify as anymore. It's none of your fucking business. Just as we don't give two shits about your bunny factory sex lives because it's none of our business. So shut the fuck up and keep your grubby minds out of our bedrooms, pants, public toilets the gutter in general.

I actually feel sorry for your now exposed and directionless self serving cause. Because it clearly isn't about God or Jesus anymore. It's about bitterness, resentment and pure hatred like I've never witnessed in my lifetime!

So here we are at a crossroads. Our agenda has always remained the same as feminism. Not to reclaim rights because we never actually had any for decades of oppression, humiliation and fear. We were delegated to the shadows in silence or be arrested and exposed by your morality police. We have stood up and made an honest case for decency and equality over the last 30 odd years and it pisses you off because you ran a campaign selling something intangible that historically has perpetuated fear instead of compassion, freedom and love. We will not stop as everybody deserves the basic human rights of equality and peace.for our future generations and beyond.

You can now either flounder and wait for your precious leaders to throw you your next mission. You can continue to obey their bidding as a mindless follower. Or suck it up and open your eyes, ears, mouths and hearts to rejoining humanity and working together instead of against as a slave to a book full of words whos ambiguity have been used against you and everybody else to put the 1% of people controlling the wealth and  power where they are today!

You have a choice!

You Can Lead a Horse to Water but.....

Apparently everything except the things that really matter are destroying the moral fibre of our society. Not the poisoned water supply from fracking, 3 nuclear sites with serious issues, low wages, industry sent offshore to China, food being filled with hormones and various drugs, trillions of debt and as reported here on this very site while everybody has been distracted over public toilets somehow becoming the new breeding ground for sexual assault the govt has been making plans to amend gun laws as every bodies been so caught up in it all instead of

1. Cracking down on sexual assault by life sentences with no appeal as 90% re offend.

2. Micro chipping offenders. We have all these amazing smart phones and new tech so why not use it to chip the sickos.

3. Working closely with law enforcement and communities keeping the public up to date on offenders who may be in the towns thanks to micro chips.

4. Clamping down and ensuring the people in high power position where MOST offenders are hiding so they have access and can remain untouchable. We cannot allow govt officials to stand behind people like Dennis Hastert who got off lightly for raping 5 boys and one killed themselves.

5. Demand better from government. Predators attack on a percentage less than the actual small trans* population in restrooms. Making such a large issue shows these sickos you are scared of them it's not going to draw them to toilets it will drive hem away and underground. For the love of god people a few weeks ago a man was jailed for only murder when he raped and mufdered a pet dog. Where was the outcry?

Stuff this petty crap. You want people to take notice of you? Search deep within yourselfs find that Christian spirit that used to be. The one that worked together with all people like Jesus preached. Use that spirit to make government accountable! Don't exclude people or they will keep turning away.

You can call me a liberal CUNT, name call or shame or tell me Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve or tell me God created only man and woman then try and throw science at me with DNA claims. These are not words. I prefer to deal with words that have positive intent because actions comes from those kind of words.

Stuff that rubbish. Your children and mine and everybody's lives need to come together and focus on the bigger picture. I need to be more understanding as does everybody else. As do you!

And I understand you may be angry at me for saying all this but it comes from a place of love. I think if you are Christian and calling people names fussing over crap and complaining you feel under appreciated then change it. Look past our differences and come together. 21 cities in America it's illegal to feed the homeless PEOPLE. What would Jesus do?? That's the question. Not finding a quote from the book to use it against. The opposite!!

I'm gonna tell you a home truth you may not be ready for: I hope you are ready for it soon before the endless distractions leave us all without any rights. Gays, lesbians, trans* or whatever... We want a better place also. We want everybody to be able to speak freely and go be able to disagree. As long as the disagreements contribute to the overall intent of positive solutions. Not segregation, hatred and isolation.

What would I know anyway I'm just a freak, mentally sick and have lived in fear

my entire life. I'm sick of it and I'm sick of fighting!!!

It's time to put aside the petty for everybody and fight for a positive future we all should already be enjoying right now!

An Afternoon of Toilets, Genitals, Target and Transgender Fear

This little exchange began when I became aware of Coach Dave Deubenmire. His little religious group of what looked more like a Google hamgout of bigots delegated to the garage by their wives. His current agenda is fully targeted at the trans* bathroom laws that are dominating the current presidential campaign. 

He had been taking videos of himself repeatedly going to Target to ask the young frontline staff on the store floor to explain further their bathroom policy. Also trying to manipulate them using the story of waiting for his daughter to come out of their bathroom and being anxious men would be in there with her.

Clearly testing the young staff on the stores new policy pertaining to gender identity and which bathroom men can enter knowing full well he is purposely insulting and misgendering all trans* women as they have only just discovered there are trans* men also who transition from their female birth marker.

Watching him on his second video at Target they called the police on him and even then he tried to manipulate the police  around his views which by this time were un apologetically to cause division and hatred.

I then decided to watch his YouTube podcast and it became clear to me he was openly admitting to purposely market and use the "protecting women and children's privacy" angle to create an uproar over something that has been happening forever.

He continuously pushed his audience to stay focused on the angle and take the focus away from the "poor transgender MEN". Intentionally encouraging people to treat us as delusional men who are mentally ill. Even though they say we are not the target and they are only worried sex offenders will dress as women to try and use the new laws to rape women and children in public restrooms.

To cap off the short portion I recorded as an example he ended on a tasteless joke that ridiculed us again being mentally ill like a sex offender. 

I posted it on my Facebook and then the next day came across this article about him.

http://www.westernjournalism.com/ohio-pastor-takes-a-stand-at-target-against-bathroom-policy/

That prompted me to write a comment questioning his motives to which nobody even addressed me. I then  tried to engage with the constant stream of wanting to destroy the company Target to no avail.

So I spiced up a post and slowly they bit

But I was ready.....

ORIGINAL POST.

ME.

Well this man Coach  Dave Deubenmire is clearly faking the entire "women and children" angle. He's shabby little YouTube tv program has him and his mates sitting around on google hangouts openly discussing how they have to "keep pushing the "women and children angle" as it's all about "marketing" accusing basically LGBTQIA  people of ONLY running a marketing campaign which clearly has nothing do do with our rights. 

He's a sociopath who is hellbent on driving Target out of business and using this marketing of "women and children" crap to push it all. He even goes on to say "we need to take the spotlight of the transgender MEN so people don't feel sorry for HIM." This is completely making a mockery of our existence and then ending on an extremely cheap joke at trans* women's expense. 

He is truly a vile judgemental segregating piece of garbage who stands for nothing to do with so called Christian values or morality as he ridiculed and exposed how deeply routed in bigotry this all really is. 

I've posted the link to the video on my face book and the full episode can be found on his YouTube. Go and listen to him plot out the entire fake plan of pushing "women and children" down every bodies throat as an angle to succeed over people not caring out trans* people. Scumbag...

https://www.facebook.com/jade.starr/posts/10154247068208028

https://youtu.be/g6z_B2ufCA0

WOMAN.

Don't shop there any way!

WOMAN.

No more target or any other business that does not care about the safety of all their customers. Enjoy your empty stores

WOMAN.

Don't shop there any way!

ME.

Oh and we can't forget the fake safety of the "women and children" bulkshit cover up for isolating a group of people creating a diversion whilst the Kayser currently work together to attempt to turn back marriage equality. Idiots think we are as retarded as you.

Remember we live in the real world and don't need a zombie on a stick to help us keep our blinkers on. You seem never open to dialog and so blind you all act like the very people that murdered Jesus. You lost your compassion somewhere between protecting your priests from sex offender charges and protecting the politicians from sex offender charges because both are one and the same. They have been looking out for each other for so long. 

You know tax break concessions for votes meanwhile spending 6% on education that has turned you into toilet obsessed, reality avoiding , uneducated morons chasing a boogy man who hasn't struck yet and won't because he's too busy in congress and church raping all your kids.

Blah blah blah one track mind attack Target, sex offenders and never acknowledge when one of our own is a sex offender. And then wonder why people are floding away in droves

WOMAN.

Target has lost my business because I have two granddaughters seven and eight and they will not be safe so Walmart here we come!!!

WOMAN.

Have I been asleep like Snow White? When did America start sliding into another dimension where it looks the same, but different? Common sense is now considered bigotry. Being born Caucasian is racist and privileged, just by circumstance of birth. We're just a hair off of having real thought police. All religions are welcome everywhere in the US....except Christianity.

Christians are intolerable bigots, unreasonable and dangerous. I haven't seen anyone filing out of a Baptist church recently wearing a suicide vest. It's rumored there are schools across the US that not only allows some non-Christian religions freedom to pray in school, they also provide prayer rugs. Christian religions don't have that option. I don't know how to stop the idiocy marching across America, but I do know we better get it done.

WOMAN.

There is a simple solution. Stop shopping there. Problem solved

MAN.

BOYCOTT! !!

WOMAN.

Guards need to be posted at all bathrooms to protect the young girls and women. This has got to be the biggest war on women.

ME.

And what are these toilet guards going to do? Put their hands down every bodies pants? Fondle society like your priests fondle kids? Who do you people think you are? Get a grip on life you whack jobs! No predators want to attack your women and children because you are deranged and want to guard toilets and inspect people's genitals.

You have all become very lost and very very ill. You speak about people like they are garbage oh trans* people only make up a tiny percentage so just exclude them and treat them Like child molesters. Then claim you are No really I'm not blaming them but if we take away their rights well we are killing 2 birds with one stone.

Your leaders are making a joke out of this and the whole world can see you losing the plot screaming about pedo's who will never go to rape in toilets because you freaks are there wanting to touch everybody's genitals.

REGARDLESS OF HOW MUCH YOU IGNORE THE TRUTH. THIS CRAZY MISSION YOU ARE ALL ON TO DESTROY A LONG STANDING BUSINESS, THEATEN EVERYBODY WITH YOUR WEIRD TOILET GUARDS, DECLINIG. NUMBERS, WHACKY THEORIES AND YOU ARE STILL BEING CONTROLLED BY AN ORGANISATION THAT HAVE BECOME CORRUPT WITH  POWER. FOR YEARS WE HAVE SEEN IT BECAUSE THERES EVIDENCE. 

CHILD SEX OFFENCES AND ASSAULT AGAINST WOMEN STEM FROM THE HOME, FAMILIY MEMBERS AND CLOSE FRIENDS MOSTLY. ALSO PEOPLE IN POWER LIKE YOUR PRIESTS, POLITICIANS, TEACHERS AND COACHES. STATISITICS SHOW ABSOLUTELY ZERO OFFENCES FROM TRANS PEOPLE AND THIS WHOLE CAMPAIGN YOU ARE RUNNING YOU HAVE FAILED TO MENTION TRANS* WOMEN ARE THE MOST ASSAULTED AND MURDERED EACH YEAR.. 400 TRANS WOMEN IN 2015 MURDERED! MORE THAN 1 A DAY. 

ALSO THE PERCENTAGE OF ATTACKS THAT HAPPEN IN PUBLIC RESTROOMS ARE LESS THAN THE PERCENTAGE OF TRANS PEOPLE IN AMERICA. YOU ARE ATTACKING A DECENT LONG STANDING COMPANY THAT ARE JUST TRYING TO DO WHAT YOUR BIBLE TEACHES AND TREAT PEOPLE EQUALLY WITHOUT JUDGEMENT THE BEST THEY CAN.

YOU ARE THE FASCIST BULLIES THREATENING EVERYBODY WHEN THE TRUTH BE KNOWN YOU ARE LIVING IN A WORLD GUIDED BY AN AMBIGUOUS BOOK WRITTEN WHEN PEOPLE THOUGHT THE WORLD WAS FLAT.

SINCE THAT TIME YOU HAVE ALL BECOME TAINTED AND ARE NOW THE PRODUCT OF HATRED AND SELF PRESERVATION AS YOU EXPECT PEOPLE TO FOLLOW YOU BLINDLY INTO MADNESS.

GET A FUCKING GRIP. THE HOMELESS ARE COLD AND DESPERATE, THE HUNGRY ARE GROWING AND DYING, THE GREEDY HAVE YOU ON A LEASH LIKE PUPPIES MAKING YOU ALL LOOK MENTAL, YOUR WATER IS BEING POISONED FROM FRACKING, CURRENTLY 3 NICLEAR PLANTS LEAKING AND THE WORLD IS WATCHING ALL THIS THINKING THESE IDIOTS HAVENT WON A WAR SINCE THE CIVIL WAR AND THEIR ECCONOMY IS FUELLED ON BLIOD WAR MONEY SENDING THEIR MOLESTED KIDS BY PRIESTS TO FIGHT FOR NO VALUE WHATSOEVER.

NOW YOU ARE MAKING UP PRETEND SCENARIOS CRYING ABOUT PEOPLE WANTING EQUAL RIGHTS AS A BAD THING USING YOUR FUCKING WOMEN AND CHILDREN AS A LAST DITCHED ATTEMPT TO HURT PEOPLE BECAUSE ULTIMATELY YOUR ARE FUCKING SCARED!!!!

GROW UP, MOVE ON AND ACTUALLY DO SOMETHING TO HELP AMERICA BE THE ONCE PROUD, FAIR, ENCOURAGING, SUPPORTIVE AND LOVING COUNTRY IT WAS AND CAN BE AGAIN BEFORE ITS TOO LATE!!!

REMEMBER YOU ARE THE RESULT OF 4 BILLION YEARS OF EVOLUTIONARY SUCCESS.

WOMAN.

A flash back in time, Target also refused to fly the American flag over their stores.

WOMAN.

Don't forget the new law also lets men into the ladies dressing rooms

WOMAN.

I certainly will not ever shop at Target again unless they reverse their bathroom policy! It is a dangerous policy for both genders of children who use the bathroom. Not worth taking a chance. Men can just walk into the womens bathroom anytime and Target will do nothing. There are just too many pedofiles around, just check your geographical area and see how many are close to Target.

ME.

I don't want to be mad I want human's to work together I swear but nobody wants to. You have always taken the role of moral leaders but I don't think you can see that you are isolating yourselves and it's not healthy. Everybody needs to drop the bullshit and start working together or your little prophecy end of the work scenario is gonna happen.

Because as a race each and everyone of us just couldn't stand up and take a breath and say stuff this everything is wrong we need to rethink everything. Everyone has become heartless to others and the only people winning are the rich and it's not a competition.

It's simple MEAN RICH PEOPLE CREATE POWERLESS POOR PEOPLE. So they need to go. GENUINE SICK PROVEN SEXUAL PERVERTS WHO ACTUALLY COMMIIT THE CRIMES NEED TO BE ERRADICATED AND CRIME PUNNISHED TOUGH! This will remove fear and negativity from people who don't deserve it no matter how many. We teach our kids to be bullies and lie and aspire to be idiots as our governments bare faced lie to us and we take it. We take it so much we take it out on each other for bullshit.

WE NEED TO TAKE IT OUT ON THE POWERS WHO PERPETUATE THE CONTROL, POVERTY, HOMELESSNESS AND THE FEAR. It's trained us to attack each other and be afraid of stuff like sex you know the thing we over use because it's shoved down our throats EVERYWHERE. Now look at us overpopulated and we all hate each other!

It sucks and shouldn't be this way. But it's around these times when we are arguing around an IDIOTIC issue like this that its time to stop and GENUINELY LOOK AROUND AT WHATS GOING ON AND NOT BLAME SOMONE ELSE. ACTUALLY TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY AND START TO WORK OUT HOW TO REALLY FIX THINGS

I HATE WATCHING US ALL REPEAT THE SAME CRAP.

Look I'm a trans* woman. I have spent a lot of time evaluating my morals and character when I began my journey and I have become a much better person who for many years has volunteered for many types of peope in need. I had to because nobody would employ me or give me a chance. And I'm glad because I don't need to brag about it because it's made me a better person and I'm proud of myself. I also have a terminal illness and may not make the next month.

I say this out of frustration, desperation but mostly care and love.

It's time to really make changes happen that will leave a resounding impact of significance to our kids. All this other crap is exactly that. Pointless crap!

WOMAN.

Men should not be allowed in women's restrooms anywhere!!!!!!!!

WOMAN.

Never did care for Target anyway. This just helps seal the deal to not give them my business. Oh, have no need for Walmart either.

ME.

I am sad that you have all become so closed off and refuse to even communicate to the rest of us. Just ignoring things doesn't make things go away. We all know how much you liked shopping at Target we've seen it on your faces cutting up your cards. They aren't your enemy really. Nor are trans* people.

Target are doing their best to do what your book preaches remember? Be equal and fair and try to accomodate everybody and it's not perfect. 

You need to look deeper. The real issue I'm sorry to say but you are going to have to confront it sooner or later as we all have to confront things like this. The problem stems from people in power protecting sexual offenders and criminals from within their own ranks. They have become arrogant and don't care about any of us. But we still sit back and take it when we shouldn't.

Churches who are meant to be moral leaders cover up offences and Goverments who are meant to keep us safe protect their own. Only 2 days ago they stood up for a man who molested 5 boys. He got 5 months jails. This is an outrage!!!

You want people to follow your faith. Then prove that you care. Trying to shut down a company you actually like and paying people to guard toilets is end of the world crazy talk. It doesn't feed people, give poor people hope, increase wages, demand clean water. What's going to happen is you will end up with guards on toilets checking people's pants and then all die from the poisoned water and nuclear leaks if you are not all living with the homeless before then.

I don't want to even have this conversation because we should know better. We should have already learned this stuff and be fixing it properly. I don't hate anybody apart from controlling people who disempower and sex offender, murderers and the like who hurt people. Have you ever thought they are only a product of the disempowerment that many people feel by those in control? It's getting to the point if we don't uprise soon together the. All hope is gone.

I'm sorry if you hate me and won't listen. Just remember I myself came here to try and get your attention just as people to start a dialog with civility once I got your attention and i mean it from the heart. Blessed Be!

Ok well goodbye now. I really hope you snap out of it. Because it would suck to see you all a year from now congregating at public toilets 24 hours a day and now be known as the creepy genital police wasting your time as by that stage nobody will be going to those toilets and spaces because of the crazy people who missed an opportunity for rationality when all this began. You can threaten businesses in your own towns all you want. Who are you really hurting.l?

PS I sincerely hope all your husbands are not out acting like public toilet vigilantes or you are all more gone that I originally thought

Male Person.

If your a man wanting to be a woman you can still use the men's room and squat to pee so do it....a woman who wants to be a man can't stand to pee so

ME.

And if you come near me when I'm taking a pee in the women's toilets I will break several bones before you can sneeze buddy. You have oppressed people like myself long enough you don't have the fucking right to control or dictate to me any longer you self absorbed creep who doesn't even have the guts as MAN to stand up against the people in the church who have protected pedo's whilst disrespecting your faith by pissing all over it!

You have become a bunch of weak Bitch bullies afraid of your own corrupt leaders so you attack the presumed weak. I don't like oppressive types who have no courage within themselves to confront the people that are making a fool of them. You have no power over me or anybody else. You are not God. You either man the fuck up and sort out your religious leaders kiddy fucking ways or strong people like me will hit you were it hurts most with truth, logic and reality that will smash open your religious organisation so wide the whole world will see the hidden depravity that you weren't MAN enough to confront yourself.

Instead, you are running a poorly aligned marketing campaign to use your wives and children as shields against a shopping chain and a small percentage of trans* people. You are using an empty story with no merit as a cover that everybody can see is just a weak unthought out LIE.

You are becoming the sick people. With other people's toilet habits and genitals on your mind using some weak attempt to be angry at sex offenders.

If you really were that concerned you would attack the people who protect and perpetuate the continuation of children being molested without any repercussions whatsoever.

One final home truth. The rest of society is quite honestly getting fucking sick to death of watching you imbeciles defend priests. Stereotypes exist for a reason. That is a continued pattern over a long period of time like sex offences in the church. Priest have for a longtime been stereotyped as rock spiders.

WE HAVE HAD ENOUGH AND IF TOU ARE NOT MAN ENOUGH TO ADMIT IT GOES ON WITH ALL OF THE EVIDENCE. THEN THE REST OF SOCIETY HAS NO OPTION BUT TO TURN YOUR ORGANISATION INSIDE OUT AND UPSIDE DOWN AND EXPOSE EVERY CREEP WITHIN IT

I PROMISE YOU IT WILL BE ONE OF THE MOST SHOCKING PERIODS HUMANITY WILL EVER SEE! AND YOU STANDING BY DOING NOTHING MAKES TOU AN ACCESSORY!

NOW MAN UP AND KEEP YOUR FUCKING JUDGEMENT, OPRESSION AND HATE OUT OF THE "PUBLICS" TOILETS AND GO FIX YOUR OWN DISGUSTONG CESS POOL OF INSTITUTIONALISED RAMPANT PAEDOPHILLIA THAT BARES hARDLY ANY RESEMBLANCE OF YOUR ONCE MORAL RELIGIOUS DOCTORINE.

Bye! 

Jade Starr

My Response to a Christian over the Bathroom Law in America.

Comment:

What's confusing is people trying to be something they are not!! If you was born a man you will be a man til you die. If you was born a woman you will be a woman til you. Simple facts people!

My Response:

Christy, how can you live in this world and proclaim with such certainty everything is black and white? Explain Intersex people? Explain the amount of odd birth defects? Explain the man in Indonesia who is turning into a tree? You don't dictate the complexity and imperfectly perfect amazing diversity of the way things are. What you can do as you are sitting on the Internet with a world of knowledge at your finger tips is investigate the history of two spirit people in indigenous cultures and the value they were placed in the hierarchy of tribes. Yes way before religion was ever conceived.

Also investigate the term "church and state should never mix" to learn about religion being a blueprint for government virtually created by the same people to look after the other.

I can understand how it seems totally unbelievable for you to conceive such a conflict in people who are more than often highly creative and intelligent and not murdering or raping people. We have a genuine conflict internally as you are not experiencing it how could you understand. Trust me it's a cruel thing to deal with and many of us try and try and try to no avail to shake it. People don't continuously make shit up knowing how ostracised they become for coming out. Many lose everything but they find inner peace so how bad can it be to you?

You do realise how incredibly powerful hormones are yes? Think! Relate it to birth in the womb with the bodies chromosomes of a boy. Body develops as a boy but an imbalance of oestrogen is released. Haven't you seen the tv shows and documentaries there's no way for us to brainwash other people's kids it's a feeling so certain I knew at 5 and fought it ever since. I don't expect you to get it but it's common in animals also as seahorses change gender, plants and who knows why and who gives a shit. 

Guess what? As a trans woman barely anybody ever notices me anymore. I'm an open honest person in the media who shares it with anybody I may meet and could be possibly romantic with. I face many of the same bullshit expectations all women are hassled with, unsolicited dick pics online, unwanted advances at bars, catcalls, men treat me like I'm stupid and am expected to look perfect every day and can't because perfection doesn't exist. I don't have time to be worried what people think as so many people walk around on this earth lying to themselves. Most of their hang ups are worse than mine ever were.

I don't blame anybody for being trans* and do the best I can and always put others first. I'm sick of explaining about my genitals I could give a shit as they don't dictate my life and I can't get the surgery because I'll never be a biological woman and feel Turning my genitals inside out is very barbaric especially with the medical advances that are coming our way in the coming years there may be an alternative.

I don't want to confuse people. But wow so many people confuse me. They preach love and acceptance and all I see is hate and hostility. I merely exist and have survived the best I can with my lot and hell I've achieved things many wouldn't in 3 lifetimes even against all the oppression, sniggering and pointless hatred towards me and others. Do you know how bad it feels to have people speak of you on the same level as a grubby child molester? Or question your integrity? If you have faith then you would know that people question it and it hurts!

I don't even know what else to say. I fear all I'm going to get back is "what about the women and children" it's like our voices mean so little and that's sad for the people who obviously are becoming so hateful that their empathy and openness to the grey area that does exist between black and white in everything we experience on this amazing planet is lost in spite!

I've stood next to many women and proudly fought for equality and been accepted. I've seen what it's like to try and be a man and had no idea how to be one and feel that many men themselves are a little lost. I understand both sides as do many trans* people and actually have insights into bridging out differences that are valuable and contribute every day to make others and my own life better.

Trans* people have been forced into the shadows for a long time and he have had to confront many home truths and walk heads held as high as we can. We don't ask you to worship the ground we walk on as we are barely hanging on with suicide rates that are only so high from relenting bullying hurled at us constantly. We just ask others to look within themselves to give us a break for a moment to exhale with our fear!

Would Jesus Be Proud Of Your Moral Judgements?

Dearly beloved,

Have you ever stopped for one second  and wondered if the men of power within the church are the main perpetrators of sexual assaults towards women and children? You do know that throughout history there is an incredible amount of evidence they have covered up relating to many priests molesting innocent children then openly blaming minority groups that can't fight back? 

You all know the story of Jesus Christ. It is amazing and also very relevant with all of this bathroom propaganda currently being used to discredit and hurt a group of human beings who struggle on a daily basis to survive amidst unimaginable discrimination yet hurt nobody.

Jesus was an amazing charismatic, empowering, thoughtful and kind man. He invested in people and understood oppression and believed in a world without it. For his beliefs and actions he was rounded up by the powers that be and nailed to a cross as a warning to the people for daring to question those in control because they were corrupt, power hungry and perverse and ultimately out of control. 

For a religion that focuses on such a high standard morality. Somewhere throughout history the men in control of spreading the message of Jesus's love and compassion have lost their way. Instead using the ambiguity of the words within thes scripture against the very people who were most disadvantaged. Instead of practicing the attributes that made Jesus so special, the message has focused on judgement and fear as we are constantly reminded that he died for our sins and anybody who is perceived as different has been singled out and persecuted just as Jesus was. 

The absolute power of the men running the organisation ultimately tainted their judgement leading them to an agenda of uninclusive fear mongering and a culture of internal secrecy to hide the the very darkness they are blaming on the perceived weakest of humanity. They have become the corrupt powers once warned about now deflecting endless accusations of perversions towards the  powerless minoritys using their followers in strength of numbers to isolate, discredit and disempower. Absolute power corrupts and as they are merely men preaching the story of a man they could only hope to emulate inevitably the darkness has taken hold.

This isn't rocket science it is proven hard evidence known as FACT! Only each time they attack a minority group they have less people backing them because the message is becoming more transparent and their methods have grown weaker. For fuck sake they are using our toilet habits this time around and it should not be tolerated as its the kind of stuff that should be mocked in this day and age as bullying.

You need to start looking within your own walls at the corruption that has lead to dwindling numbers and the handful of ignorant uneducated people still lapping up everything they are fed even if it has never happened and never will. For the followers are only easily manipulated because of the bigger issues being ignored in America like 6% of spending on education. Now you know why they treat you like idiots. 

Here's the deal. You are supporting a group of men who have been protecting child molesters Internally for so long that they only preach the scripture as lip service. The religious institutions have made a mockery of the power behind the faith and the followers. They have been using the words as a front to cover the corrupt and perverse sexual activities behind closed doors on our children. They are misleading their followers to attack and defame people who don't have the rights to fight back on the basis of our differences. Remember Jesus and how he treated all people equal by displaying understanding, compassion and acceptance. Not trying to change them, defame them and shame them. 

The reason the church has failed is because they are merely men. Statistics show that the vast majority of sexual predators are men. They are men in power and within families but none of them were transgender because transgender people have been shunned and living in secrecy since being deemed evil and sinners just for existing. Men have taken the word of God throughout history and used it as a weapon to hurt women, children, blacks and gays. The Catholic Church even sided with Hitler for a period of time until the pope of that time died leaving them open to attack. How many more children have to suffer at the hands of a sick priest? And how many times are you going to stand back and allow them to cover it up? And how many times are you going to do their dirty work and falsely accuse innocent people just for being different of crimes they never committed in the name of the MEN who have failed you. 

I know many religious folks don't like facts but let's give it a go anyway. It's well documented that trans* people have been around in many indigenous cultures well before religion and were honoured as the shaman and healers as they were able to resolve disputes between men and women being more of a grey area between genders. This was before medicine so the tribes accepted it as normal and instead utilised these people to help form cohesive family and broader communities networks.

Then white man invaded countries all over the world introducing the Catholic doctrine as they raped, murded and made an example of the two spirit transgender people as freaks killing them off first just for fun. It's quite ironic isn't it. Here we all are again full circle and after attacking and accusing every minority group over the last 200 years the last group standing are the most vulnerable and misunderstood because nobody will listener accept them like Jesus would have. 

The only people left to attack once common sense prevails and the credibility of organised religion is further tarnished and exposed as a mere group of bullies. I'm afraid it's all over because they will have to go after the child molesters themselves which opens the door for society's judgement upon the church. People will now see clearly and have seen enough to know that the history of men within the church who have sexually assaulted boys is to glaringly obvious to overlook anymore and the walls will be smashed wide open.

I promise you this! Once the walls are knocked down and investigated. It will be the single most shocking discovery of human depraivity ever before seen and will shock the world forever. The men running the current regime of the church are protecting the largest child sex offender ring in the world. It's connected to corporations and governments completely tax free and I wouldn't be surprised if it is also a part of the human slave trade.

So open your ficking eyes just for one second. Remove God and Jesus Christ from the picture and make an informed opinion on the evidence of corruption and perversion already investigated and well documented. You will see that the men who you have followed in good faith have made you all to look as hateful as the fear mongering sinners they have become themselves!

If you don't take this opportunity to follow your heart and lead by example the way Jesus Christ would have then you will go down with the child molesters who have been using you to do their work for them. If the second coming of Jesus actually eventuates I can promise you one thing. You are all fucked!

You have been warned!!

The Elephant in the Bathroom Continues to be Hatred and Fear!

I apologise in advance but...

Be very clear what I'm saying is not about questioning people's faith....

By turning it back on the finger pointing religious organisations who have labelled everybody else as pedo's and sinners throughout history. I don't care what people believe if it makes them happy fine. I am well read across a lot of religion and atheism is another group of people who claim not to be a religion but as the numbers grow it is in itself becoming one. That aside.

This is not about their faith. This is about the systemic history of demonising minority groups all the while covering up possibly the largest amount of sexual offences within an organisation who continue to laugh in the face of society. I'm talking about bringing down an organisation that has continuously contributed to negativity and fear under the guise of an ambiguous and factless story. This is a much bigger picture than the BRAINDEAD followers cutting up their little Target cards in protest not smart enough to know any better as their government spends 6% of taxes on education.

This is about breaking down the walls of hatred of an organisation that have fed us all bullshit. I remember being young and hearing about the church feeding the homeless and caring for people but cannot recall this EVER being a reality in my 43 years on earth. All I have seen is hate, misinformation and a continuous stream of protecting a large amount of predatory behaviours toward the children they so often use as fodder to round up their followers.

Look at the bigger picture. Blacks fought against slavery, women have fought against oppression, gays have fought against being labeled sexual perverts and now we are. Are any of the aforementioned really that much better off? There are still massive inequalities and the people behind the protected walls continue to run this hate through their army of lawyers paid for with tax break money and tax payers money filtered through organisations who send their people here like at the moment who are comparing us to the Nazis.

Their major complaint is that we are all too PC. We have been politically correct towards the church for far too long and it has to stop. They have to be exposed and hung out to dry. They are one small part in a network including the government and corporations that are drugging anybody depressed or anxious into zombie land. Taking away our basic rights to protest unless it's for manufactured hysteria like we are seeing now, poisoning water supplies, ignoring businesses mass polluting and very quickly destroying the so called "normal" middle class until the only class is "the poor". This is all happening and we are fucking being sidetracked everyday with vapid idiotic nonsense issues and celebrities like the kardashians and Donald trump so they can slip all this bullshit through behind our backs.

It's time to think outside of our little alphabet soup comfort zone and be leaders by refusing to buy into the bullshit pity parties and infighting we currently display. This has nothing to do with the FAITH people have and that must be made clear. You know though as well as I the church will use it as a weapon as they always have and it's no longer acceptable now that they have stated that trans* people are PRETENDING to be something. 

They have opened the door to the PRETENDING ATTACK. It will have to be used against them for the INTENT of exposing the real issue here and that is a persistent and relenting history of falsely accusing minorities for being child sex offenders and perverts when the EVIDENCE IS BEYOND A SHADOW OF A DOUBT CLEARER AND A MELBOURNE SUMMERS DAY THAT THEY ARE THE PERPETRATORS THEMSELVES!

I'm so over defending people's sexuality and genders as there has always been a bigger issue always overlooked like religious groups have a free pass. The numbers continue to dwindle for religious organisations which only shows the institutions have even let down their followers and only the easily controlled remain. I refuse to sit back and let a bunch of secretive vile wealthy sexual pervert protecting scumbags blame yet another bunch of innocent people. As they fucking laugh behind their walls of corruption!

I'm telling you once that one brick in their wall is loosened and the walls begin to crumble the truth will bring a much needed reboot to this world and the sinister people associating and aiding their endless cover ups will fall as well. It needs to happen or it won't matter where any of us pee because we won't have a say in anything.

Finally, the story of Jesus Christ is amazing and very relevant to all of this. He was an amazing charismatic, empowering, thoughtful and kind man. He invested in people and understood oppression and believed in a world without it. For this he was rounded up by the powers that be and nailed to a cross as a warning to the people for daring to question those in control because they were corrupt, power hungry and perverse. 

For a religion that holds everybody to the words written in their scripture and how he died for our sins it seems we have all at sometime in history been treated like Jesus by the very people who control the religion. They are the corrupt powers deflecting endless counts of perversion whilst persecuting the smallest minority at that particular period of time reflecting the exact story of Jesus Christ. This isn't rocket science it is proven hard evidence known as FACT! Only each time they attack a minority group they have less people backing them and their methods get weaker. For fuck sake they are using our toilet habits this time around and it should not be tolerated as its the kind of stuff that should be mocked in this day and age.

To me this is far broader than sexuality, gender, race or religion. They are clearly not even selling the words that make up their doctrine therefore all they are is a front for a Paedophile ring that has successfully blamed others for centuries and now is the time to put an end to it for once and for all. It begins with legal action and ends in the people demanding transparency to the inner workings of the hatred and fear mongering cess pool they have been for far too long. Then maybe we can actually start tearing down the controlling powers and actually make some headway to change major problems that we already know cannot be fixed with band aid solutions if these people remain at the helm!

Trans* Coming Out Advice!

Don’t buy into the negatives regarding coming out to family and friends. If you come out to anybody who is willing to end a relationship as a partner, friend or family member look at it as a positive.

Coming out gives you a snapshot of the people you need and don’t need in your life. You then have the power to cut the imbeciles from your future and begin to build the type of people that can equally enrich each other’s lives.

So often people don’t come out in fear of rejection. The people who reject you when you are completely vulnerable and honest offer an opportunity to erase them from your life. Far too often people focus on retaining these dead weight assholes by even caring what their reactions will be.

I’ve heard many trans* people continue friendships with people who haven’t accepted them fully and then they wonder why they are feeling shit relating to their transition.

If you surround yourself with shit, you become shit! Cut your losses and move forward because for every so called friend that won’t accept you there’s are a shit load of new friends who will love you unconditionally.

For many trans* people we wasted so many years living in fear to actually come out and be our true selves. So why keep around old road block so called friends when the journey has enough obstacles already.

Coming out as your true self is about you! Not some other assholes opinion. Negative, unhealthy and toxic friendships over your transition are not your problem to fix.

Your mental health, support networks and real friends are critical to your happiness and positivity as you live in your amended life going forward!!

Peace xx

The Choice is Yours!

I keep seeing this in my feeds across all social media and once again don’t understand why nearly everything I read from trans* people is so focused on NEGATIVE!!!

As a trans* person I want to say.

Life isn’t perfect but there are many times I feel blessed to be trans*. I have and continue to live a full and evolving life as an extraordinary twin spirited human being continuing to fight for what’s right and shaping my own future!

Fuck parades! They are modern day petting zoo’s which have devolved in meaning. People need to start realising that dancing semi naked in the fight for serious human rights is a pointless exercise in revenue raising for a tourism industry that could give 2 fucks about equality.

People are terrifying!

Everybody suffers from depression!

It makes me want to wake up each day and live the best I possibly can as I continue to correct my blueprint and surround myself with amazing friends in a world full of mostly uneducated sheep.

People laugh at me sometimes but it’s ok I laugh secretly at so many people for not being able to function in a rational way as they trundle along their zombie path living a life of ignorance.

We are living in a social media world where many human beings are struggling with loneliness and finding a partner as we become more disconnected, shallow and unable to communicate on the level needed for the relationships we desire.

I’m sick of the trans* community perpetuating such a negative portrayal of our existence. I am a normal person who happened to be born in the wrong body. I live in a world where I can somewhat correct this birth error and fight to be accepted, survive and enjoy my life as much as possible accepting I may face struggles than many can never understand.

I am a HERO and the people who support, value and love me are HEROES also because they are awake and see past the “normal” uneducated flock of hand sanitiser obsessed programmed baby creating bigots who are no better than me.

There are assholes everywhere who date all kinds of people for superficial, manipulative and evil reasons. Ask all women throughout history! I often forget that the people I have dated as a trans* woman themselves face the same ridicule that is directed at me. To show such devotion reveals character and strength.

Maybe sometimes being trans* isn’t always about me? I used to fear walking out my door but refuse to hide myself away from a increasingly valueless world. My inclusion in society may attract some assholes trying to ruin my experiences but deep down inside I know the world is a better place with me being in it!!!!

The choice is yours!

Trans* Does Not Mean Sex Offender!

Back in December 2015 I posted a link regarding the current movement in America legislating to force trans* people to use the public toilets of their original birth gender.

These people are suggesting without any evidence whatsoever that by allowing trans* people to use the toilets as the identifying gender they present publicly will increase the risk of sexual assaults towards women and children rising.

So it’s better to prevent it from happening now before it’s too late regardless that there is absolutely no evidence or correlation linking trans* people and sexual assaults in public toilets.

They are also suggesting that if trans* people are allowed to CONTINUE to use the public toilets that match their gender identity. That NON TRANS* MALE offenders will start dressing as the opposite gender to gain access to public toilets to commit sexual assaults. Even though 99% of perpetrators who were charged for these crimes just walked into a public toilet and assaulted their victims without the need to dress as a woman.

Firstly trans* people have ALREADY been using the appropriate public toilet that match’s their gender identity and there have been ZERO instances of a trans* person sexually assaulting anybody.

Secondly there has been ONE instance where a sexual deviant in Canada posed as a women to sexually assault their victim in 2014. The perpetrator was suffering from severe mental illness and did not identify as a trans* person. Once again clearly proving there is no evidence linking trans* people to sexual assaults in public toilets.

When you stack up the evidence or lack there of it becomes crystal clear that this current legislation push has nothing to do with protecting the victims of sexual assault. Police and advocates for sexual assault victims have repeatedly stated that continuing to allow trans* people to use the public toilets that match their gender identity is in no way linked to the sick people who commit these crimes.

Also there has been no evidence suggesting that the rate of sexual assaults in public toilets has risen at all which completely exposes the entire argument as a blatant smear campaign.

This is clearly a front to link trans* people with sexual deviancy, child molesters and rapists. They are using the same tactics used to fight against marriage equality and same sex adoptions. Using the women and children victims to justify their transphobic agenda is absolutely disgraceful.

Not only is it an insult to the victims but the sheer audacity to blatantly lie and manipulate people to believe such a marginalised community with a suicide rate of 41% that also lost almost 400 lives at the hands of murderers in 2015 just for existing are also sexual predators. How anybody is actually taking this seriously is beyond rational comprehension.

They used these tactics against same sex adoption and marriage, suggesting same sex children had a higher risk of being molested. Ironically there clearly is no proof whatsoever as same sex couples have NEVER had the legal right to marry or adopt children. The danger of trying to link these obvious false accusations to LGBTQI people is that it leaves wide open the centuries of “normal” heterosexual nuclear family units that have been rife with incest and sexual assaults. This is an undisputed fact and yet heterosexuals have never had their rights to start a family questioned or taken away from them.

Sexual predators and rapists are fucking sick people who pray on woman and children. There is no link to same sex attracted people or trans* people. If a sexual predator or rapist is caught and charged it’s because they are a sick rapist or child molester nothing more.

In fact all the evidence suggests throughout history the perpetrators of these crimes normally operate from positions of trust and power. Like teachers, politicians, judges and priests.
The Catholic Church is one of the largest organisations on the planet supposedly promoting the gospel of God. They are also guilty of spending the most obscene amounts of money to cover up the criminals in their organisation who have destroyed tens of thousand of lives by sexually assaulting children all over the world without punishment.

These are the very same people who are using the victims as emotional fuel attempting to link same sex attracted and trans* people to the sick crimes that they themselves have actually endorsed by covering up throughout history.

Trans* people face so many disruptions to their lives when they begin their gender blueprint correction. They don’t wake up one day and decide they want to change their gender like a pair of socks. Anybody who still thinks like that isn’t thinking at all. We lose friends and family members and many have to move to another state or town. Then we face discrimination by employers, housing and forced into psychology and treated like we are mentally ill. On top of that just leaving the house can turn into a barrage of insults, ridicule and physical assault on a daily basis.

Now we are facing our basic rights to go to the toilet safely to relieve ourselves being taken from us also by linking us to sex offenders. In all honesty trans* people are treated far worse by society than the actual real sex offenders who ruin tens of thousand of lives forever.

Trans* people come out publicly as they have no choice. It’s either begin correcting the blueprint or take your own life. We don’t expect people to understand as it’s impossible. All we ever ask is to just treat us with decency and respect by simply treating us as the gender identity we present.

Hopefully people will start to see just how valuable trans* people are in the near future. We are amazing, talented, caring, beautiful twin souls with valuable information relating to gender equality as we have seen it from both sides. I am blessed to be born a trans* woman and will continue to fight for the right to stand up and contribute as a human being on this amazing rock!!

It’s going to take a lot more than a bunch of fact less lies, discrimination and ridicule to stop me from having the right to do what makes me happy!

Grey is the New Black! Trans* Rebranding

Here’s the deal! We need some serious REBRANDING!!

Grey Is The New Black!

As trans* people we have been tagging along the alphabet soup community for quite some time now. I’m not saying to break away from it. 

Although I think a rebrand is definitely overdue as the letters are getting a bit of a mouthful. I don’t like queer also as it pertains to strange. I do think a word that makes more sense is the term “Fluid” as its is inclusive to all humans.

It’s far less rigid, especially as bisexuals have always copped flack for being “greedy” or some bullshit. Trans* to me is a dead term as it suggests only trans* people are in transition when all people are and those who aren’t are already dead.

Being a “fluid” community offers flexibility like water freezes and melts. It’s ever evolving and inclusive not only for LGBTQI people but it doesn’t look as daunting for someone coming out. Also you would hope a fluid community would want to know more about each other and support each other more. Than we currently do under our individual letter.

So as I mentioned I hate saying I’m trans* or in transition because even after reassignment surgery you will continue to transition and grow no matter what is between your legs. Plus it suggests that you are changing from one to another. I always felt like a girl from a very young age so I’m not in transition, I’m correcting the blueprint.

Trans* people are often fetishised most likely because trans* porn is one of the categories in the industry still making money. It’s like unicorn porn. Well it used to be, but now there are so many trans* people in porn it’s not so unique anymore. 

The term transsexual aligns us with sex I believe. The term transgender has softened the impact but it’s all still sadly about what’s between our legs that non trans* people define us by. Oh and don’t get me started on the term “CIS” I hate this term as it does everything we don’t want it to do. It creates a wider divide that adds fuel to an us vs them fire that we don’t need.

So we need to rebrand. Sell ourselves as unique individuals with talents, tales and a bridge between man and woman. A missing part to a puzzle. We are people that offer insight to the reality of a non black and white world. As does the term fluid. We need to use the media to our advantage instead of letting it tramp all over us! Grey is the new black!

If we all started one GoFund me account for the entire blueprint correction community to raise money to pay the worlds best advertising firms to bombard all media outlets with positive imagery of trans* people we would probably do a lot more than any amount of parades could muster.

Think about how easily these days viral marketing gets everybody talking. We bitch that non trans* people play movie and TV roles, well we need a new approach to get everybody to notice us for positive reasons. Who needs actors in our own advertising campaigns? Not us!

Why are companies like Apple, Google and Microsoft so massive? They are advertising themselves with focus and simplicity. How they describe the product is 97% how it works. Go ahead and check Apples Customer Satisfaction Statistics. Currently our advertising campaign is a few celebrities, some amazing activist and a shitload of negativity, death and misery.

Sure we are extremely marginalised but so have many other minorities throughout the ages. Times are different now and we as a collective which is actually stronger than you might think, have some serious numbers all interacting online. We are connected, savvy, smart, creative and very resourceful.

Just because we are trans* and feel as though somedays are just too hard. We need to change that because it’s not only a trans* condition. Just because we suffer from depression and anxiety well it’s not an excuse. ¾ of the world suffer from the same thing. We need to create our own opportunities and make all of our voices and strengths shine as bright as possible. We need to show people that we go through the same struggles as everyone else. We have an opportunity to preach harmony with far more empathy and strength than the Church could ever hope to do.

Currently a good chunk of people actually look at us on the same scale as a rapist or sexual abuser of women and children. As fucked up as that is. Without rebranding and using our skills as a collective to do what everyone from Governments, advertisers and the never ending catwalk of talentless humans getting viral fame for fuck all. This seem to stay the same. So we need some heavy marketing via mass advertising.

People don’t go and buy things because an ad says it’s a new formula. People go out and get it cause it’s new and that created a knock on effect because society are mostly brainwashed sheep! We need to stay fresh, new and relevant. A hard hitting ad campaign can do this. It has worked for all of the major brands world over for many years.

We are such a talented bunch of people. Far more talented than tacky sparkles dancing in a parade trying to get people to accept us whilst dancing and looking like we haven’t a care in the world. We already have great trans* people in so many job markets and the entertainment industry. So we should be collaborating with these people smarter and more effectively.

So why are we not pushing the agenda of happiness, worth, intelligence and making people fully aware of how strong one must be to correct their birth blueprint in this current judgmental hyper aggressive current world?

We have the skills, we have numbers and even more backup from the fluid community. Advertisers clearly don’t give a flying fuck about what they are selling. The best advertisers want to make money and be successful from their campaigns as their names are at stake. They want the product to impact the audience and be remembered. They can do this for products that are clearly shit. Imagine what they can do for us!

We have so many success stories that so many trans* people don’t even know of. Our history and strength diminishes each year we dance at parades acting like we are loved. When in actual fact we are still the fetishised animals that people look at in cages in Zoo’s but instead it’s a parade and made to look all bright an glittering. When in actual fact it’s lost it’s venom and the only glittering going on is the money made from tourism and corporations involved in the events.

The danger and conviction just isn’t there. Look at Midsumma. Even when a group of fluid people stood at the front of the parade trying to make a stand about the big businesses commercialising the March. Everybody turned on them. The main perpetrators were the crowd blindly physically and verbally attacking the protesters without understanding why the protest was happening. 

Those kids were clearly scared as the animals from behind the fences tipped water on them, spat on them and physically got in their faces. Why? Because they were being edgy, dangerous and they made news headlines. We need more of this danger again in our fight!

We need to rebrand ourselves as edgy, dangerous, non sexually exotic, intelligent, creative, beautiful and strong as all fuck human beings. We have so many allies to help create an advertising campaign that would do more in a 2 week run across all media outlets than the last 30 years that resemble the still water river behind the Taj Mahal in India. Trust me it’s going nowhere and it stinks.

It’s time to get dangerous and start taking risks. Look at how many people have done it before. It’s time to take a slice of the pie and hire a marketing team that can convince people just how truly important and amazing we really are!

Grey Is The New Black!

TRIGGER WORDS - FUCK YOUR EXCUSES!

When I mention that a girl I barely dated for a month has been stalking me for 2 years is MENTAL and PSYCHO. I'm not aiming it at you if you have a mental illness. We all suffer from mental illness in varying degrees and at varying times because mental illness has no rule book as our brains are still very mysterious. 

If you have taken a comment aimed clearly at another person as a personal jab and want to make an issue about it with me then I have no problem making it an issue with you. Just be aware I clearly aimed my attack on another person who has hurt me deeply so the intent was to hurt them back!!! The bitch is a fucking Psycho and has done it to others and has a 5 year old which has been taken away twice already as she was placed in a mental health care facility. I hope she gets hit by 100 cars. Now that is INTENT!! It's not always about YOU!

I totally understand people wanting each other to be mindful of words and I AM in certain groups where I know people may be offended. I do this with no issue as I'm respectful of others and over the years learned to be a chameleon in certain instances. It's called maturity and being self aware enough to care for those of value. Let's be honest though I've had to live the past 14 years as a tranny and heard every name under the sun. I no longer give a FUCK what people want to say to me. Why? Because you only give words as much meaning as YOU CHOOSE to.

Remember language is just a bunch of made up bullshit much the same as money. Both are used to control and contain us from our full potential. Language expands every year adopting cool new words to help us communicate like "LOL" and "SELFIE". Just imagine life without these added treasures?

I'm a fucking tranny, shemale, shimbo blah blah man in a dress. Whatever helps YOU sleep at night. But how many of you can actually say you have accepted yourself 100% and love every bit unconditionally? I'll call myself what I like and I'll call others on how they interact with me. I'll aim my words as always. Directly and with intent and no hidden double meanings. If I'm not addressing you then shut the fuck up or I will address you and you will need a month to lick your fragile little wounds!

So heaps of my gay friends call themselves faggots and black and white people be calling each other niggas everywhere you turn and blah blah blah....We NEED to be able to offend people from time to time or we will all just end up biting our tongues and perpetuating the FACT that most humans lie to themselves and everyone around them everyday. Stopping hurt feelings ain't going to solve the BIG PROBLEMS that lead to these feelings through oppression.

Yet religious organisations are FUCKING YOUR CHILDREN. Governments are PROTECTING THE RELIGIOUS ORGANISATIONS AND GIVING THEM TAX BREAKS SO THEY CAN FUND POLITICAL CAMPAIGNS. The 1% of the rich ie corporations, pharmaceuticals, church and government are keeping the poor dying, keeping the struggling closer to poor and everybody as medicated as fuck to sustain a world full of feeling less imbeciles who are offended by a word deemed to be a slur... FUCKING PRIORITIES PEOPLE!!!

It's really fab to stand up and beat the drum that a word is inappropriate but then sit back as the people you are defending... Say people with mental illness who are now scattered all over our cities in privately run cash cow housing splitting people up into smaller numbers and paying someone to watch over them who cares more about the Xbox they are playing in the office than the people they are caring for... 

Or to boo hoo over the word "tranny" being used between people who are adult enough to understand INTENT in a jovial conversation yet do absolutely FUCK ALL to stand up for trans* rights. People are mostly idiots and throughout history get swept up in the trivial part of the bigger problems. Trying to break down oppression by oppressing words is FUCKING IDIOTIC! How can people not see this?

WORDS HAVE NO VALUE! Look at religious text. It goes out of its way to be ambiguous so the blind faith fucktards can argue forever and not be held accountable. Much like the entire cult they follow. Do something bad, repent and then be free to do it again. We are all sitting around attacking each other over these valueless words but as a race stand by and let religious groups feed us bullshit and cover up FUCKING CHILDREN. We let Government leaders use words to FUCKING LIE TO OUR FACES.

Yet stand by and let it continue because we are all too soft and precious to REVOLT! But fuck me if you suggest a bitch is a nutcase for stalking me for 2 years then the entire world of anxious depressed people want to rip me apart???

In my opinion it's actually too late for people people to wake up. The number of fuck hole idiots way outnumber the aware or waking up brand of human being. All these terms like slut shaming, rape culture, cultural insensitivity MEAN FUCK ALL IF PEOPLE DON'T STAND UP AND REVOLT. The term "Actions speak louder than words" exists for a reason. Are you smart enough to understand the reason it exists is the big question. If you do understand then have a look around and answer why the actions are not happening.

I'll tell you why! PEOPLE ARE SO FUCKING PRECIOUS OVER WORDS THAT THEY ALLOW THEMSELVES AND OTHERS TO CONTINUE TO BE OPPRESSED BY A SOCIETAL STRUCTURED SYSTEM THAT IS CLEARLY NOT FUCKING COOL FOR EVERY LIVING THING ON OUR LIVING PLANET.

People have been brainwashed to believed they are weak and can't do anything about the bigger problems so they focus on the small shit WHICH ONLY EXISTS BECAUSE OF THE BIGGER PICTURE STUFF TO BIG TO DEAL WITH!

We continue to play into their hands with social media now also. We provide the largest database to give the information needed to develop and continue the systemic medication and dumbing down of our entire race freely because our focus is on the PETTY stuff we have created ourselves to be mad at.

DEPRESSION, AXIETY, SOCIAL ISOLATION, MENTAL HEALTH & SUICIDE ARE ALL VERY REAL ISSUES. I wouldn't have made movies about them if they didn't exist. But society must begin to realise the more we talk about it in social media the more the POWERS THAT BE WILL USE THESE THINGS TO FURTHER THEIR CONTROL. We are more medicated than ever before. The meds block the feelings giving us the ability to cope with the mundane day to day life shit that we have been programmed to do. Be aware also they take away the ability to REVOLT.

I'm sorry if this offends you. As its not meant to offend you. In fact in saying this I'm agreeing that mental illnesses are VERY REAL! But as humans we are meant to feel all of these hardcore emotions. They are a natural part of us. 

Many people need to hit rock bottom emotionally to be able to climb to great heights. Those riding high often come crashing down hard. The key to balance is to look deep within and find your inner peace as individuals as we are all the same just born at different times and places to different people.

Many performers get anxiety before a performance and that's perfectly normal. It's how we use that energy to become better. The anxiety and nerves a performer feels actually is needed much of the time to fuel those amazing performances that fans remember forever. Shutting down these emotions is NOT THE ANSWER. It's a bandaid fix that will have REALLY BAD long term effects for the future of humanity.

The more we obsess over trite valueless words. The more we play into the chosen path being set for us. Don't let this happen!

Finally....

If you are a really cool person who is attractive yet not perfect because perfection is a ridiculous notion and unattainable until you are at peace with yourself. You have tens of thousands of people following you on the Internet for not really doing much yet you are often depressed or anxious and don't fully understand why so many people follow you and like you. STOP QUESTIONING IT AND STOP QUESTIONING YOURSELF. IF YOU ARE NOT LISTENING TO YOURSELF WHEN YOU REPEATEDLY SAY YOU NEED TO FIND YOUR PASSION BUT YOUR PASSION IS FUCKING CLEARLY ANIMALS THEN START RECORDING YOURSELF AND LISTEN BACK EACH NIGHT BECAUSE OBVIOUSLY ME TELLING YOU HAS BEEN VALUELESS. You changed your diet for them. You live for your own animals like they are humans and every animal you see you treat better than actual humans that LOVE you!

SO TAKE YOUR FUCKING LOVE OF ANIMALS AND TURN IT INTO SOMETHING FUCKING AMAZING!!!! STOP BEING A LAZY CUNT MAKING EXCUSES AS THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE HANG ON YOUR NEXT WORD, VIDEO OR MUNDANE ACTION. YOU HAVE THE POWER TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE MORE THAN MANY OTHERS WILL EVER DREAM OF.

SO TAKE THAT ANXIETY AND SADNESS AND USE IT TO DO SOMETHING A M A Z I N G!!

And maybe then you will learn the value of someone who actually wants to invest in you! If you have taken this as an attack then you are wrong!

BE ALIVE WHILE YOU CAN!

Because in an instant you may be facing DEATH!

A Message to "OUR COMMUNITY"

In regards to the current discussion over the words "Tranny" and "Shemale"

I'm in disbelief that people in "our community" are shocked by the vile suicide and murder statistics when it comes to trans people. Oh hang on a minute I'm not shocked at all as nobody really gives a fuck about trans lives and most have a friend who is one just like a fucking handbag. Sound familiar? You probably don't realize the dire stats because most of the community is out getting fucked up on drugs at a day spa and have never heard of Transgender Day of Remembrance, where every year around the world hundreds of trans names are remembered for not only being murdered but brutally butchered, burned and completely desecrated in some of the most vile attacks on a sub culture of people. Most of these atrocities are performed in western culture to boot. So while the big #gay #party continues and bitches be moaning about a fucking rainbow crossing try thinking about the savage stats and the trans person who hears the words "tranny" and "Shemale" shouted at them before their head is cut off and dumped in a dumpster.

Maybe people in the "community" would "get it" if you tried to support us on Transgender Day of Remembrance" Nov 20 each year just as we have held hands and towed the fucking line during the AIDS epidemic and countless other rights we have been there for. You don't need to understand why we are trans, just fucking listen and show some fucking compassion. Don't get me wrong I'm not painting all with the same brush. There are many in our community who genuinely care for trans people and for that I'm thankful. It's a two way street when it comes to love and respect. I am proud to be their allies as they are proud to be mine.

Sure it's just a word and it's impossible to ban, I don't want it banned as banning things never work. But just take a second to think who it's said to and the struggles they may have encountered. Most trans people are poor, jobless, lonely and afraid to leave the house so imagine even if it was only 10% of trans people that are vulnerable to these words, someone, somewhere IS being affected by using them no matter what the intent at the time. Also having some CIS gay male privileged superstar like RuPaul tell a so called bunch of VULNERABLE fringe dwellers to "Harden Up" is quite fucking rich and hard to swallow. It's FAB that he respects himself but he sure don't deserve an AMEN when he obviously doesn't respect the vulnerable fringe dwellers who seem to be pissing all over his CIS privilege party!! Boo Hoo!!

Is this such a fucking hard concept to grasp? Or do we have to put it in a party drug and give you all a dose at the next big gay party?

We've answered all your inappropriate questions about our genitals at every chance you take to ask about them and not once done the same to you about stuff like anal sex. It's called fucking respect!

Treat trans people how you'd want to be treated. It's time to grow the fuck up!

Awesome Tweaks and Solutions for iOS.

As of late the jailbreak community has been blessed with some really original and useful new tweaks that really make you iOS device shine. Once again the extremely talented jailbreak developers have pushed iOS to the limits hopefully Apple are taking notice and either employing these talented people or at the very least implementing these tweaks into future iOS updates.

Velox by @FTO2g, @bensge & @satropuk

http://youtu.be/C4cMnFciSSo
Velox is the highly anticipated tweak that allows you to access notifications and info from within the app without actually opening the app. With a simple swipe up/down the app opens like a folder on your springboard to give you quick at a glance info. The dev has been painstakingly working on this tweak for quite a while and it is looking brilliant! Velox is due to drop this weekend on Cydia for $1.99.

Abstergo by @joshmtucker & @nosdrew (universal)

http://youtu.be/Y5hy9MWN1tk
Abstergo makes your notifications actually useful. With Abstergo you can remove notifications from your lockscreen without unlocking the device and set reminders for your notifications. You can do this with any notification that comes in and even go into your iMessages app and select a message as a reminder. The notification with then pop up again to the time you set. Abstergo is available now on Cydia for $1.99.

JellyLock by @max_katzmann (iPhone)

http://youtu.be/LL9zBxTiSKc
JellyLock is a lockscreen launcher in the style of Android Jellybean. This tweak is chock full of settings so you can really personalize your lockscreen. You can add three of your most used apps along with the camera and unlock buttons. My favourite part of this is you can even make your own button and add it via iFile. This is still currently in beta on the devs repo and is Free. Repo source - http//cydia.myrepospace.com/maxkatzmann/

Message Box by @b3ll (Universal)

http://youtu.be/V0G7KYY-eDg
Facebook Chat Heads on your springboard the way it was intended on iOS. Facebook recently rolled out Chat Heads on Android along with their intrusive Home integration. Shortly after Chat Heads came to iOS but could only be accessed whilst inside the Facebook app. This tweak allows Chat Heads to appear anywhere on your springboard the way it was intended. The dev is constantly updating the tweak to iron out all of the bugs and its really working well now. Message Box is available on Cydia and is Free!

TypeStatus by @hbangws (Universal)

http://youtu.be/3q0yMz41Ojc
Influenced by Jeff Bengamin from @idownloadblog, TypeStatus adds notifications in your status bar when somebody has read and is replying to an iMessage you sent to them. This tweak works without having the iMessages app open and gives you read receipts notifications also. TypeStatus has not been officially released and is still in beta. You can get it by adding repo http://cydia.hbang.ws in Cydia and its Free!

Atom by @surenix & @tyler_nettleton (iPhone)

http://youtu.be/FQekUk_JeIQ
Atom like JellyLock is a lockscreen launcher which is very slick looking. You can add six of your fave apps to the lockscreen for fast access along with a simple swipe up to unlock the phone. Atom doesn't have anywhere near as much customization as JellyLock but the devs say this will change with future updates. The animations on Atom are very impressive and it gives your lockscreen a wonderful new look. Atom is available now on Cydia for $1.99.

Well these are just a few of my fave new jailbreak tweaks. Do yourself a favour and check them out. For such a small price they really add some depth to your iOS device and keep our awesome jailbreak dev community developing as most of them do it in their spare time.

Boot Loop Tip

Recently many people have fallen prey to the boot loop issue after installing a jailbreak tweak. The phone reboots, Apple logo shows up then goes dim and reboots. You can access your file system via SSH but cannot get into safe mode. I suffered this problem along with many others and it seems Cydia dev @saurik had received tons of emails on how to fix the problem. Luckily there is a fix where you need to remove two files on your device so your springboard can reload its file system.

First you need to go into iFile and find these 2 files
/var/mobile/Library/Caches/com.apple.LaunchServices-045.csstore
/var/mobile/Library/Caches/com.apple.mobile.installation.plist

Once you find them don't delete them just in case ;)
change them to
/var/mobile/Library/Caches/com.apple.LaunchServices-045.csstore.bak
/var/mobile/Library/Caches/com.apple.mobile.installation.plist.bak

This basically renders them invisible, you can go and delete them later, always good to keep a backup :)

Once you have changed the name reboot.
Upon reboot you will notice all your stock apps are there and your installed cydia apps but NO appstore apps.
DONT PANIC :)

Just sit back and chill as iOS will slowly rebuild your apps on the springboard. I have over 300 apps on mine so it took a couple of minutes.
Once all your apps are showing go into Cydia and remove the offending tweak. Should work perfect.

Then go back into iFile and removed the files you changed to .bak.

One more final mention....

@coolstarorg is getting close to releasing a semi-restore for iOS users who have screwed up their device with an unstable tweak and can't solve the issue with Safe Mode. I suffered this problem recently with my iPad mini but was lucky in a way because I had to replace the device anyhow with Apple. From what I understand CoolStar will semi- restore your device without having to update your firmware meaning you won't lose your jailbreak. This is great news as SHSH blobs no longer allow you to downgrade back to a jailbreakable firmware. For more info head over to www.semirestore.tk

Cheers
Jade Starr - @dreadcircus

Apple Australia keeps warranty policy changes from consumers.

Last Friday Australian Apple retail stores and authorised resellers were notified internally about changes to their warranty policy's. Apple now must fall in line with Australian consumer law and offer 24 months warranty on all of it's electronic devices. These laws actually came into effect January 1st, 2011, so why has Apple taken so long to make the changes and inform customers of their rights?

The Australian consumer law states a statutory warranty as a "reasonable" period of time but does not go as far to define that time period. Instead the ACCC (Australian Competition and Consumer Commission) suggested any large or expensive piece of electronic equipment can be up to 24 months.

Apple has not officially announced the changes on their website and many consumers on forums believe employees will not proactively inform them of the changes to the warranty policy. Fairfax media claim to have seen the email distributed to Apple's stores saying it told the staff not to mention the policy changes to customers.

Hopefully Apple will proactively inform customers of the changes as it will only enhance their fantastic customer service that has made them a leader in electronics and retail worldwide.

Apple's new policy begins on all iOS devices on Monday 25th March, then applies to all Mac products 2 weeks later.

Source - SMH

Jailbreak Tweaks that Rock!!!

So you have recently jailbroken your iPhone and want to add some tweaks that will make your device kick ass??

Here's my list of Tweaks that rock my iPhone 5.

SbSettings - A Must have tweak! Easily access options like WiFi, Airplane Mode and Bluetooth with a single swipe of your status bar. Plus Safemode is installed so you can trouble shoot your device without the pain of a restore!

Intelliscreen X - This is the way your Lockscreen and Notification Center should be. You can tweak your Notification Center to your hearts content. Tweak also comes with Messages+ so you can reply to iMessages/SMS without leaving the app you are currently using.

Activator - You can assign functions to your device using swipe gestures. Don't like opening Siri with a long hold on the home button change it to a long hold of Power button. The sky is the limit!

Zephyr - Forget clicking the home button twice to bring up Multitasking. A simple swipe from the bottom of the screen will do it. Totally customizable to how many fingers you want to swipe with.

iFile - Access your device system files like you are using a Mac. Perfect for trouble shooting and saving files from the Interwebs in tandem with Safari Download Manager.

Safari Download Manager - Ever wanted to download files whilst browsing on your device? Well you can with this tweak then email or add to dropbox.

Springtomize 2 - This little gem will let you virtually customize every aspect of your device. Springboard look, Icons, Folders, App Switcher, Dock, Animations and yer Lock Screen will never look stale again.

Call Bar - Answer and make phone calls using a swipe gesture. Call Bar will let you use your phone as a notification bar along the top of screen. Perfect to keep browsing or an app open whilst on a call.

AnyAttach - Adds a paperclip to your emails allowing you to add files from Dropbox, photo Albums and iFile. Email as it should be.

Auxo - App Switcher as it should be! Live views of apps currently open in your App Switch. Awesome redesigned music player and the ability to turn on functions like Blutooth, Wifi, Airplane Mode and many others.

Browser Chooser - Sick of Safari being your stock browser. Browser Chooser allows you to choose your default browser perfect for lovers of Chrome.

Camera Tweak - Add awesome functions to your stock camera. Separate Focus and exposure, frame rate settings for video, time lapse photos and timer burst shots.

Flex - This tweak is a crowd sourced mod that lets you virtually modify any installed apps on your device. I use it to remove sponsored ads on my Facebook timeline. It's always evolving as devs upload new tweaks.

Protube Extension for Youtube - Protube alters the already installed Google Youtube app to allow you to download videos to your device. Heaps of great functions included.

SwipeSelection - Sick of correcting mistakes when typing by holding your finger down on the word? This tweak allows you to easily swipe your finger across the keyboard to move your curser to the place it needs to be.

Well these are some of my fave tweaks. Some are paid and some are free. They can all be found on the Cydia Store.

Happy Tweaking!!

Jade xx